I said,"yes" to him anyway and when he was more relaxed, he told me the romantic things he meant to say to me afterwards because he could finally think straight again. I am married to one of those men who "messed up" his proposal and forgot what he was going to say to me. This is why I say that even if you "mess up", it's not going to change her answer. Make the little details and the location about the two of you and what makes your relationship special. Like, maybe you propose at a certain restaurant because that's where the two of you went on your first date or you propose to her while stargazing because you both love the outdoors.
You should make all the details either about her or the relationship you have with her. Just like with the ring, the little details can make the proposal important. Unless, she is the type who really cares about jewelry and who you regularly give jewelry to. That can make it special.īut even if you don't do this and just get her a simple, diamond ring, she'll probably be happy with this. Or the symbol of eternity on the ring because you want to be with her forever. Like, maybe a sapphire instead of a diamond because she has beautiful, blue eyes. So if you don't have a lot of money and/or she's not that into jewelry, then you might want to pick out something that symbolizes something special about her or her relationship. Her best friend or mother will probably know exactly what she wants and be able to help you with it.
Is she really into jewelry? Then you'll probably need to get her something expensive and the diamond in a very specific cut. Then you have to consider the personality of your girlfriend. You'll need the help of the mother or girlfriend probably to figure this out. Nothing is as disappointing as a ring that doesn't fit. The most important thing is getting your girlfriend's ring size.
They likely know what your girlfriend likes and can help you pick it out. This is part of the reason why you need the help of the best friend or mother. There's a lot of stress about picking out the perfect ring. It's more important that you show that you know her through the way you propose to her, then that you have a grand gesture. It takes a lot to gather the right people together and make arrangements for the perfect proposal. If one of you is an extrovert and one is an introvert, then proposing in private (because that's the most intimate moment) and later having an engagement party would be a good compromise.Ī lot of men want to propose publicly because they view it as a "grand gesture." This is true. If she has more than one father, like a biological father and a step-dad, you might want to approach them both, depending on how close she is to them. If her father isn't around, then asking someone who is a substitute, like her mother or a man who acts like a father figure to her, is acceptable as well. This is old-fashioned, so you might think about skipping it, but if you do, there's a chance that her family might get angry at you for skipping out on it. Her best friend or mother will likely know exactly how she feels about marrying you and can confirm or caution if this is the right step for you to take right now. This can also be helpful in double checking if your girlfriend is ready to get engaged. Because they care for your girlfriend so much, they'll be just as excited about the proposal as you are, so they'll be more than likely excited about giving you advice. Also, if you're not sure whether or not she'll like a certain ring or certain detail of the proposal, you can ask them for advice.
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